Forgiveness...The Raw Truth

In the about me section of the website, I mentioned my journey and struggle with forgiving people that have wronged me.

In my mind I thought forgiveness was only given to the wrongdoer so they could have their peace /closure for the wrongful actions they took. Because of that, I dug the feeling to forgive others so deep that it made it harder for me to find where I placed it. See I had it figured out that I was in control and remained on top because I didn't forgive people for their actions. That was honestly the worst thing I could have done but it was never explained to me how to truly address it or the truly value behind it.

The frustration and anger that was caused created resentment and was starting to change my ch